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everythingfox:

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squareallworthy:

ghostpalmtechnique:

MSNBC removing all of its Muslim hosts is ominous.

One would like to think America didn’t learn literally nothing from it’s post-9/11 mistakes, and yet…

They what?

Oh, for crying out loud.

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officialspec:

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walkable cities also means sittable cities send tweet

some people are responding to this like its a joke and im going to assume u are the type of people to say “its only a 3 minute walk” when i tell them the nearest bench is too far away

also anyone who thinks “3 minutes isnt THAT bad” you will be old one day. and you will wish the bench was closer

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girlfictions:

A journalist stationed at a Gaza hospital who has been able to make a call via his Turkish sim:

“We’re in Al-Aqsa Martyrs Hospital. We have no idea what’s happening. There’s no connection, no Wi-Fi, no reporters. We’re cut off from everything.. People can’t call ambulances or civil defense. We are being bombed in an unprecedented manner. The sky around us just lights up [with explosions], and no one knows what’s going on. You can’t reach anyone, even if they’re only 500 meters away. Ambulances and medics are begging reporters to let them know which streets are getting bombarded to go rescue the victims but the reporters themselves don’t know where anything is happening [because of the connection loss]. We are trying to report the news but we have no idea what’s happening.

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only-tiktoks:

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mariacallous:

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ceasarslegion:

Ive noticed recently that my generation has… no concept of what the various economic classes actually are anymore. I talk to my friends and they genuinely say things like “at least i can afford a middle class lifestyle with this job because i dont need a roommate for my one bedroom apartment” and its like… oughh

You guys, middle class doesnt mean “a stable enough rented roof over your head,” it means “a house you bought, a nice car or two, the ability to support a family, and take days off and vacations every year with income to spare for retirement savings and rainy days.” If all you have is a rented apartment without a roommate and a used car, you’re lower class. That’s lower class.

And i cant help but wonder if this is why you get kids on tumblr lumping in doctors and actors into their “eat the rich” rhetoric: economic amnesia has blinded you to what the class divides actually are. The real middle class lifestyle has become so unattainable within a system that relies upon its existence that theyve convinced you that those who can still reach it are the elites while your extreme couponing to afford your groceries is the new normal.

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taylorswift:

✨My name is Taylor and I was born in 1989 ✨

http://taylor.lnk.to/1989TaylorsVersion

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elodieunderglass:

daydreamingandprocrastination:

I’m all scratched up and I can still taste spray paint in my mouth and my husband almost fell out of a tree BUT THE GHOST SCULPTURES ARE FINISHED!

They’re finally finished and I’m so happy with them!!

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Some progress shots:

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Wow!!!

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queenofthefaces:

thefloatingstone:

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lornagonigall:

some post: THE FOLLOWING USER IS A PEDOPHILE

me: ah what undesirable™ ship is it today

THIS!!! THIS IS THE FUCKING PROBLEM!!!! THIS IS WHY THIS PETTY PEDOPHILIA POINTING GAME IS SUCH A FUCKING ISSUE AND PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST DANGEROUS TRENDS OUT THERE.

THERE ARE REAL ACTUAL PREDATORS ON THE INTERNET AND ON TUMBLR TOO IM SURE. BUT IS ANYONE GONNA TAKE A PEDOPHILE WARNING SERIOUSLY NOW??? ON TUMBLR.DOT.HELL WHERE ANY AND EVERYONE WHO YOU DISAGREE WITH IS “PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE!”
NO!! NO THEY ARE NOT.

HONESTLY ALL THIS FUCKING BULLSHIT ABOUT TRYING TO FIGHT PEDOPHILES AND KEEP KIDS SAFE IN FANDOM SPACES GOING TO
THE ABSURD LEVELS THAT IT HAS
, PROBABLY HAS THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT.

YOU ARE GIVING ACTUAL PREDATORS A PLACE TO HIDE.
IN BETWEEN ALL THE ABSURDITY AND SHIP BULLSHIT.

YOU’RE GIVING PEDOPHILIA WARNINGS AN EYEROLL AND AN “ugh what is it now” RESPONSE.

IM MAD. IM MAD THAT PEOPLE WHO CLAIM THEY’RE TRYING TO KEEP OTHERS SAFE WOULD THROW A WORD LIKE THAT AROUND SO CARELESSLY,TO THE EXTEND THAT PEOPLE HAVE BECOME DOWNRIGHT
DESENSITIEZED
TO IT.

BEING ACUSED OF PEDOFILIA ON TUMBLR ISNT EVEN SERIOUS. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONE ON A HEADCANON AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE. YOU SHIP SOMEONES NOTP YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPILE. YOU DISAGREE WITH SOMEONES OPINION AND YOU’RE PROBABLY A PEDOPHILE.

AND DO YOU KNOW WHO, THIS BENEFITS MORE THAN ANYONE ELSE????
THAT NO ONE TAKES AN ACCUSATION LIKE THAT SERIOUSLY??????

ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES. ACTUAL FUCKING PEDOPHILES WHO NOW HAVE A MILLION AND ONE EXCUSES TO GIVE OTHERS IF THEY’RE CALLED OUT AND DISCOVERED.

THE WHOLE PEDOPHILIA RAGE ON THIS SITE IS INFURIATING AS IT IS. ITS A DISGUSTING THING TO BE CALLED WITHOUT ANY GROUNDS.  BUT WORST OF ALL ITS DOWN RIGHT FUCKING DANGEROUS.

IF YOU’VE EVER PARTICIPATED IN THIS PEDOPHILIA SMEAR CAMPAIN.
IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA WITHOUT HAVING EVIDENCE OF THEM TRYING TO HURT A CHILD, OR ADVOCATING PEDOHILIC BEHAVIOR. IF YOU’VE EVER ACCUSED SOMEONE OF PEDOPHILIA OVER SOME PETTY FANDOM DISAGREEMENT BECAUSE YOU THOUGHT IT WOULD SURELY GIVE YOU THE UPPER HAND. IF YOU WERE ONE OF THE PEOPLE WHO HELPED TURN “PEDOPHILIA” INTO A BUZZWORD.


YOU HAVENT MADE FANDOM A SAFE SPACE. YOU’VE MADE FANDOM INTO A SPACE WHERE ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE ARE DRIVEN OFF BASED ON
HOW POPULAR THE BLOG THAT MADE THE CLAIM WAS, AND HOW MANY NOTES THE CALLOUT POST GOT.

MEANWHILE YOU’VE GIVEN ACTUAL PREDATORS THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT.

I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT.

TL;D-FUCKING-R
DO NOT CALL PEOPLE FUCKING PEDOPHILES UNLESS YOU HAVE EVIDENCE WITH THEM TRYING TO HARM ACTUAL KIDS.
PLEASE.

NOT JUST BECAUSE ITS A SHITTY FUCKING THING TO DO, BUT BECAUSE ITS FUCKING DANGEROUS.

fun fact: me and all my friends who were themselves victims of CSA screamed our heads off about this exact thing when it started happening in 2015 

other fun fact: we were called pedophiles for it 

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Pedophiles aren’t bad because they’re “icky”—they’re bad when a REAL CHILD can be HURT and put in DANGER. The focus on “stopping a bad guy” has reframed the issue into centering a “bad guy” and “getting revenge” INSTEAD OF PROTECTING PEOPLE. Victims are left IN THE DUST.

This framing, and the insistence that it’s “ok” to directly interact with someone you think is a predator—spamming their comments, sending them a DM, making posts name dropping them—puts. Kids. In DANGER.

There are TEENAGERS running “pedo hunter” accounts, and making “catching pedos” a fun meme and game for clout, that they laugh about in their discord servers and blogs with their friends. These kids go INTO NSFW AND ADULT SPACES, even going as far as to make fake accounts, lie about their ages, and infiltrate private servers, and they not only SAVE AND SHARE this content to their OTHER MINOR FOLLOWERS, they become DESENSITIZED TO SEEING IT

There are adults ENCOURAGING THIS BEHAVIOR, and blurring the lines of what these real terms mean. No, just SEEING a piece of porn ISNT GROOMING. GROOMING is an INTENTIONAL ACTION made BY AN ABUSER TO A VICTIM.

Grooming isn’t “I saw something that upset me”

Grooming is “this Safe Adult is sharing porn to Warn Me”

All of this? All of the above? This is why there have been MULTIPLE instances of ACTUAL. REAL LIFE. CSEM. Shared in these circles—to accounts with THOUSANDS of followers sharing it.

Because the obsession with catching the bad guy, the desensitization to pornographic material, the idea that people “need proof” and “receipts,” and that individuals and teens need “lead the way” and he active and involved in “taking down a pedo,”

It directly led to literal multiple occasions of real CSEM material being shared. Because there’s a whole community of people—with lots of kids in it—who don’t understand or don’t care that 1) sharing and saving that material is a felony and 2) every time that image is shared and seen is ANOTHER INSTANCE OF ABUSE TO THE VICTIM

(Bc w both of these things they think “intention” is important, that bc they’re not personally attracted to something or interacting w it sexually thst it’s ok. It’s why an adult can share porn to “warn” them because it’s a “safe” intention. It’s why these kids can sexually harass people “as a meme” or a “copypasta” or a “joke,” bc they think if there isn’t a sexual attempt, it’s somehow not harmful.)

Adults should NEVER show porn to minors, for any reason

Minors should stay OUT of 18+ spaces and NOT PUBLICLY INTERACT WITH THEM

And the CORRECT way to report CSEM is to PRIVATELY REPORT IT. Because sharing it will spread that material, which is bad in and of itself, but it can ALSO spread that material to ACTUAL PREDATORS who will save it before it’s deleted

AND FINALLY:

ONLY REPORT SOMETHING IF THERE IS PROOF A REAL CHILD WAS INVOLVED AND HURT. The authorities can’t do anything about someone’s loli anime porn—they are ONLY looking to PROTECT REAL CHILDREN. Reporting anything else is a WASTE OF RESOURCES.

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